A toxic Relationship

 As long as you are alive, different things will happen to you. Experiences you will pass through, some of them are good, but others are not and cause much pain; while what meant to be is TO LEARN THE LESSON!. However, learning lessons isn't that easy because you may be stuck in a toxic relationship. 

Scientifically, a toxic relationship is recognized by attitudes from a toxic partner towards the other partner, involving psychological and sometimes physical damages. It leads to depression if it takes a long time. In most cases, people spend a hard effort to make the relationship works. It is exhausted and becomes like endless circles of suffering.

Every day you meet people who have been in such a situation with different kinds of stories, and all of these are toxic relationships. But stories won't be known unless they are shared. So I asked my friends to share their experiences with toxic relationships, and how they get rid of them to give hope to others.

All of them believe that by letting go of these relationships, God gives them a chance to be happier and value themselves; because being in a toxic relationship is harmful. It makes any human lose his/ her passion and interest in everything. 

These kinds of relations drive chaos. One of my friends said " I couldn't have a normal life or even do my hobbies. And all that concerned me was how to make things work; even though I did my best, I wasn't appreciated at all."

Another gave their opinion saying " I was afraid of doing anything to not be misunderstood, I was humiliated by words, and always under control as if I was a toy. However, I felt relieved when that thing over and decided to not go back to it again."

Then you have to remember you're not worthless and don't let anybody underestimate you. When you be in a relationship, whatever it is, you have to create your comfort zone to not be hurt. This includes the attachment thing, when you be attached to someone just because he/she gives you some attention at the beginning then you'll discover that's not what you want. 

If you feel uncomfortable, just immediately run away, and in case you are living a trauma, get recovered soon for those who care for you. 

The healing process starts with you. You should talk to yourself to know what exactly drove you to be attached to this relationship; it's maybe because you're feeling lonely, or you don't know what fits you.

 After all, any human being deserves to be happy, treated well, wanted, and valued.